Imagine this: you walk into a room, and the person you’ve been thinking about can’t take their eyes off you. They’re drawn to you, almost as if by an invisible force, captivated by your every move. The connection feels electric, undeniable, and you wonder—how did this happen?
The truth is, you can manifest this kind of obsession. Whether it’s a soulmate, a friend, or someone who’s caught your eye, the law of attraction can help you create the relationship you desire. But here’s the key—before you can draw someone in, you need to raise your vibrations and shed any doubts or scarcity mindset.
In this article, we’ll explore the techniques that can help you manifest someone to be infatuated with you. You’ll learn how to harness the power of your thoughts, define the relationship you want, and create a connection that’s irresistible. Whether you’re seeking a deep relationship or just a spark of infatuation, it all begins with belief and a clear vision of your desire.
How would I know I’m ready to approach (or talk) to my SP?
You don’t have to worry or think about that. What’s more important is, you must feel comfortable, confident, expressive, and GOOD around them — because that’s how you’ll feel when they’re obsessed (in love or infatuated) with you fully knowing the kind of person you are. So, your visualization or manifestation practice should be directed toward having that emotional state.
Your connection with any person is determined by your feelings for them. The question is how the second person perceives that energy. What you feel is always transmitted, but you need to understand what the other person is going through. Be gentle to their energy and you’ll understand that they’re just like every other human being, entangled with their own life.
But first, how do I know if they’re the right person for you?
Your desire is a confirmation, and even if things may not seem so, it is because you’re creating resistance around your manifestation with conflicting thoughts and emotions like jealousy or desperation.
However, sometimes we tend to disregard certain traits, qualities and behavior in our SPs that become problematic later in the relationship. For instance, the person you’re trying to attract might be allergic to cats, or they’re pessimistic or a narcissist. It could be anything!
So, just keep that in mind. The person you want so badly today might mean nothing to you tomorrow. Maybe, maybe not! You be the better judge.
Note: Ensure that, along with love, you hold utmost respect for the person you’re after. Be kind and accepting to them.
Why one may fail to manifest someone being obsessed with them?
Do you agree that the universe is always on your side? I know that many people cannot. They become desperate and co-dependent. “I can’t live without them. I want to die.” No! You cannot live without oxygen, but you can live without a person. And because you don’t have scarcity thoughts around oxygen, you have it in abundance.
A scarcity mindset is the mother of all blockages. It makes your resistance stronger than the desire. And when you’re coming from this mindset, you’re basically saying: I want to feel more depressed, more lonely, and more in lack.
In simple words, to manifest someone’s obsession, you must have a desire to have them obsessed with you, and not a desire of wanting to manifest them (Which is what you’re currently doing? – Most likely??). Do you see the difference?
Did you Know? If you don’t know the real personality of the person, the universe will fill the gap by bringing up people who have similar personality to what you visualized. And surprisingly, they’ll look quite similar to the person you’re actually after.
5 Simple Steps to Manifest Someone to be obsessed with you!
You’ve got to know who or how the person is. You must know either of the following traits to manifest them into your life:
- A vivid memory of how they look physically.
- Their personality and body language.
Step 1: Know Who They Are
Observe their personality, friend circle, and other subtle things, and be genuinely interested. Don’t come off as a creep, though. The details will aid you, so it’ll be great if you friend them first, although, it’s not necessary. In fact, why do you think LOA experts say, “Book a test drive, live in the sample flat, feel as though it’s yours”? Activity (Karma) aligns your energies. So, imagine what kind of life you’re going to have when they’re in your life. Take that as a target to calibrate your effort.
With the intention in your mind focus on yourself (your mind and thoughts), and you’ll notice the change. People will be drawn toward you naturally.
Here are some steps you can take to align your energies:
- Become less of who you are through concentration.
- Then visualize them sitting in front of you.
- Visualize and engage your senses until you believe that they are actually present.
- Concentrate on them.
A clear mental image help the universe recognize what to manifest.
Step 2: Know why you want them (Be clear and definitive)
When you’ve decided what you want – When you have no way to retreat, it will happen because you or the universe has no other way to go. However, defining your ‘why’ is important to make this decision.
Okay! For instance, we don’t buy a smartphone because it has 100 features. We only buy one because we see what those 100 features can do for us. And then, we manifest it!
You might be saying, “Ah! Manifesting a phone with money is a different matter.” – But actually, it’s not! It’s working on the same principle: The law of attraction! Don’t you think it’s funny when we put different standards for different desires? Something can be manifested; something can be bought. NO! Anything can be manifested; with or without money.
Everything is functioning through the law of attraction. Only the expression of things change.
Step 3: Visualize, write and feel as though they are already obsessed with you (In mind)
Now, see them already as yours! Watch how their personality will interact with yours when they are obsessed with you. Choreograph your own mental scenarios. Do everything in your power to feel their presence in your mind. Now’s the time to match the frequency you want to manifest.
You can start by creating an entire schedule of the day with them. It is easy to do. Just write it down! Jotting down is a great way to engage the mind into storytelling. It will naturally put you under deep concentration.
Step 4: Embrace your limiting beliefs and Have Faith
Surrendering is an art of a devotee. You can be an admirer of a God, Deity, person, or even an imaginary being. Everything you imagine is a reflection of the universe. When you believe in something, you let go of things effortlessly. I’ve explained it in my book “The Secret Path To Supernatural“.
When you learn to have faith in something, your powers to manifest skyrockets, and everything comes to you quickly. Even spiritual growth.
And if you feel that you aren’t able to develop faith, take some action. Invest in yourself! Action is another form of karma that takes you toward manifesting your desire. Yes, thoughts manifest, but faith is developed through action — because when you act, you empower you faith to achieve what you want.
Step 5: Let go!
Now that you’ve already manifested them, you don’t need to do anything about it. It has already happened so forget it.
Do you know, the only thing that stops manifestation from happening is our clinginess toward it? At least, that’s the case among the people I’ve met.
Clinginess is natural when there is fear, anxiety, and a lack of belief. You can create anything if your thought process is simple. If you feel scared of it ‘not happening’, be okay with not being able to manifest them. Keep check of your vibrations all the time, and only make moves when you’re in a good vibration.
When you’re getting up to make yourself some hot brew, do you think whether it’ll manifest or not? Sounds absurd right? Don’t create a distinction between things that are supposed to be manifested and the things that you can easily get. Notice your behavior when leaving for work.
Did you manifest the bus? YES!
Did you manifest a specific seat? Yes, you did!
5 Tips to Hasten The Manifestation
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1. Talk to them as though they’re already yours.
Now this is tricky. It is imperative that you are subtle and that you actually believe in what you preach. If you’re too hasty with this, you’re going to come off as awkward or repulsive. If you cannot be subtle, you can rather regulate your emotions to ‘feeling’ as though they are yours ‘when you talk to them’.
2. Be Distant and Cool
Don’t put desperate efforts into having someone obsessed… And that’s for obvious reasons: You don’t want to be in a needy vibration. Need or desperation portrays lack and low vibration. If you want to establish a high-value image amongst the one you want manifested, then you must stay cool and distant with them.
3. Stay Happy
Being in a higher vibration naturally draws people toward you. If you’re jolly and filled with bright energy of joy and true happiness, you’d notice, not only that people are attracted to you, but also that they want to have real, genuine conversations with you.
4. Be Independent of What ‘they’ Think
Feeling and behaving like a victim may get you sympathy, but nothing more than that. When you don’t care what others think, you do feel independent and it displays in your behavior. When you’re not bound by the shackles that others struggle with, you naturally become attractive and strong.
5. Most important of all: Be Authentic
Among most teenagers, the popular ones copy their favorite idols and stars. Don’t do that unless you want to remain a beta version of someone else. Introspect and find yourself. Develop interest toward knowing yourself and others. And there’s also a saying that goes like this: If you want to be ‘the most interesting person’ in the room, then you’ve got to be ‘the most interested person’ as well.
Additional Techniques You Can Use to Manifest Someone
1. Use the 3-6-9 method
The 3-6-9 method is popular because it has worked for most people. It’s simple. You need to affirm religiously 3 times in the morning, 6 times in the afternoon, and 9 times in the night.
2. Create a mini vision board
A vision board is a physical manifestation of your desire. Every time you’ll see it, your desire and energies will align themselves in that direction. Here’s a complete guide and vision board template you can use.
3. Positive affirmations
At the end of the day, everything you attract in your life comes to you via affirmations. The only thing is whether you’re letting the external environment create affirmations for you, or you’re deliberately creating your future. You can practice affirmations and learn more about them here: A complete guide to affirmation with examples.
Things to Keep in Mind
You’ll only get what you think about throughout the day. The law is as simple as that. Forget about manifesting and focus on being happy now!
Also, if you want manifest living with someone then consider the following:
Do you leave space beside yourself when you go to bed?
Do you have a single cup or two cups at home?
Make your surroundings cohesive with what you’re manifesting. Keep an extra toothbrush and more food at home. Close your eyes and describe how their presence feels. Engage all of your senses for a boost. Watch how amazing it feels!
Create vacuum!
Remember to keep your mind open and receptive to your beliefs. If you think you manifested the wrong person, don’t stop there. Believe that the “wrong person” will lead you towards the real one. That’s why I say, just forget about it as if it didn’t even happen.
Summarizing!
- Know who you want.
- Make a decision, don’t switch it daily.
- Visualize the end result (You can write it down too)
- Develop faith through autosuggestion or simply surrender.
- Let go and let God (forget about it)
If you follow these as it is, you’ll manifest them undoubtedly. But always remember, when you manifest something from a negative feeling or intention (negative in the sense, from a lower vibration) you’ll just attract lower vibration towards yourself.
This is why before manifesting anything you want, know why you want it and also see how you feel. Ask yourself, what do I really want from this, and be genuine to yourself. If you are coming from a positive mindset and intention, your intention will be 50 times more powerful than those that come from negative emotions and emotions of lack. All the best!
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